Guest Post – Stella Lynn

Every sissy has been here: you’re browsing online or you’re out and about, then you see her. A woman who is going about her life, unaware of what you would do, and give, to be in her shoes (quite literally) for just five minutes.

For sissies, this jealously can be intense but also discouraging. For many, a quick look in the mirror is a painful reminder that you are “so far away” from the “perfection” that the goddess you just beheld seemingly so effortlessly displays.

While it’s completely natural for sissies to envy women, even to do so deeply, it can actually serve as an impediment to your progress and contradict the values of the feminist sissy. With coaching, however, it’s possible to use this jealousy as a catalyst for positive change and alignment with feminism.

Coaching Helps Sissies Identify Their Self-Sabotage

One of the greatest benefits of sissy coaching is that it provides an objective perspective. For a sissy, being coached by a woman also helps to demystify femininity.

Sissies often have a romanced view of womanhood from a second-hand-at-best perspective. For example, when a sissy sees a woman with a polished look in public, that sissy only sees the result of a lot of expense and labor that goes into accessorizing, dressing, hair, makeup, nails, shopping, and skin treatment.

Because women often have many more years of practice with such tasks than sissies do, it can look “natural” for women. That can lead sissies to falsely believe that no matter what actions they take, they will never be able to embody femininity themselves.

Coaching can help sissies understand the experience gap in feminine presentation and motivate themselves to work to overcome it. Removing these mental obstacles can liberate sissies to not only explore femininity but enjoy that exploration as well.

Coaching can also liberate sissies from the pressure of competition that many sissies feel. This attitude not only hinders sissies’ quality of life but also limits their ability to champion feminism.

How Sissies Can Turn Jealousy Into Power

When sissies don’t process their jealousy of women, it can turn to resentment. If they see a woman who isn’t demonstrating a traditionally feminine appearance at the time in the sissies’ eyes, for example, they may feel that such a woman is “wasting” her gift of womanhood.

This is a destructive attitude for several reasons. To begin, it doesn’t help sissies fulfill their potential as feminists to make improper judgments about a woman’s appearance.

Also, a mindset like this doesn’t help sissies move forward in their own sissification. Devaluing a woman because she isn’t “feminine enough” feeds the toxic masculinity that sissification aims to tear down.

The competition mindset is a tool of the patriarchy that treats femininity as a limited commodity that sissies and women both need to strive toward instead of an inherent quality that can be nurtured. Coaching can shift sissies’ frames of mind toward building up their own femininity without the need to aspire to an artificial, external standard.

A sissy with a healthy mindset views women as inspiration instead of competition. Rather than ignoring feelings of jealousy, coaching can help sissies take those emotions and use them to deepen their adoration of women along with intensifying their sissification.

When you’re ready to turn your envy into motivational jet fuel, Sissy Coach is ready to assist you in that transition. Get in touch and take your sissification to the next level.