Guest Post – Stella Lynn
Regarding almost any aspect of the human experience, the “nature or nurture” debate enters the conversation. Do we behave the way we do because of our genetics, our experiences in our formative years, or perhaps some combination of each?
In many aspects, the best answer is usually that it’s a little of both. While our unique combination of genes might make us less or more likely to engage or not engage in some behavior, our environment also plays a strong role in either discouraging or encouraging our actions.
The debate usually then progresses to whether nurture can override nature. That can, again, be an individual and situational consideration. One of those considerations for feminist sissies is often sexual orientation and preferences.
For many sissies, the sissification process awakens homosexual feelings that lead to same-sex experiences. Some sissies report never having had such strong gay urges before undergoing sissification, begging the question of whether the process “turned” them gay.
Sissy coaching can help clear up this confusion. Feminist sissy values show how sissification does not manipulate but rather liberate sissies to live their best lives.
How Sissification Liberates the Real You
Sissy coaching is not about changing who you are but rather freeing you to be the sissy you’ve always had the potential to become. This applies to accepting and embracing your sexuality as much as any other aspect of being a sissy.
While research shows that sexual orientation and preferences are powerfully immutable and inane, it also demonstrates that life experiences reinforce those qualities. Like with any other behavior, we build neural pathways over time that connect certain experiences to chemical reactions in our brains like dopamine or serotonin hits.
It’s difficult to replace those neural pathways to reward centers but it is possible. It’s simply a matter of connecting desired outcomes to behaviors then intentionally rehearsing those connections frequently.
People exhibit this level of self-improvement in many aspects of their lives, like increasing physical activity or changing their diets. Sissification utilizes this same theory to destroy toxic masculine behaviors and replace them with appropriate feminine actions.
If associated with adequate rewards consistently, the new neural pathways replace the old ones and the behavior becomes the new “normal.” If there are no legitimate rewards, however, the process won’t work, regardless of how many times you try to force it.
That’s why for sissies who embark upon their first same-sex experiences, the presence of those chemical rewards is telling. It’s your subconscious showing you who you really are.
Sissy Coaching Facilitates the “Rewiring”
For sissies discovering their true sexuality, there can be a lot of confusion and hesitation. Sexuality is such a core component of our own identities.
Sissy coaching can help sissies process this discovery, identify how they formed a false concept of who they are, and develop strategies for building healthy neural pathways associated with sexuality.
For example, many sissies find that what they mistook for sexual attraction to women was really intense envy of girls when they were young that got reinforced by the pressure of compulsory heterosexuality in the environments they grew up in. The reward for compliance with those expectations was inward and external social acceptance.
While it’s impossible to change your DNA, you can be intentional in how you live and eventually reap the benefits of that intentionality. The result can ve a life in which you are free to live authentically.
For feminist sissies, sissification is not about manipulating your behavior and mind to be “more gay.” It’s about removing problematic aspects that have prevented you from reaching your potential. Book an initial consultation with Sissy Coach to customize your plan today.